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Bill Heath's avatar

Please provide more definition of "an empathic conversational style." My experience is quite different because what I define as an empathic conversational style is founded on deep listening, acceptance (neither agreement nor understanding, simply non-judgmental acceptance that what the other person said is true for that individual at the current instant.) Genuine empathy resembles mind-reading.

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David Holbrook's avatar

Hi Bill, what I wrote was about an “emphatic” conversational style, not an “empathic” conversational style. Easy to misread. So I was writing about a style where a certain idea is being pushed in a fervent manner that does not seem to invite disagreement and discussion.

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